I (in Auckland) was in a training session last week, and my training buddy (in Melbourne) was asked to share what she was noticing as she listened to my dilemma. One of the things she mentioned were the birds in the background, and she wondered whether they were relevant. (The birds she could hear were Tui’s. Although I live pretty much in the centre of the city, there are many trees that attract native birds. I can even hear Moreporks most days.) And yes, I think the Tui’s were telling me something. Something about taking wide and adventurous perspectives with my dilemma.
Use ALL your senses and notice as much as you can when actively listening. You may just notice something that really triggers something meaningful.
If you or your team would like to practice active listening skills, please get in touch. I’m sure the Tui’s would love to be involved too!